I didn't have a lifetime to wait for Mr.Right  

Posted by Aisyah

Every little girl dreams about her wedding day, complete with visions of a big beautiful white dress and, of course, the perfect man. But 9-year-old Jayla Cooper didn't have a lifetime to wait for Mr. Right. The Southlake, TX, girl had been battling leukemia for two years, a battle that would end in just a matter of weeks. But what Jayla did have was a groom. He's her best friend, Jose Griggs, 7, a fellow patient at Children's Medical Center in Dallas. Jayla and Jose tied the knot in February 2009 to fulfill her final wish: Getting married in a beautiful wedding, surrounded by family and friends. From the flowers to the banquet hall, donations poured in to give a North Texas bride the wedding of her dreams.

Jaila died on Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Jayla Cooper is a nine-year-old girl in Texas who is terminally ill with leukemia. In February 2009, she married a 7-year-old boy she met at the Children's Medical Hospital in Dallas. The wedding was symbolic, as the two are too young to legally marry. Doctors believe Jayla will only live for a few more weeks and the parents organized the wedding because it was her final wish.


The bride was dressed in ruffled white and wore a tiara. The groom pledged to be her best friend forever. They exchanged rings, and the lucky North Texas couple swooned as they danced to their favorite song — “Love Bug” by the Jonas Brothers.

They may be a tender age — Jayla Cooper is 9 and the groom, Jose Griggs, is 7 — but their parents were behind them all the way.

She met her husband-to-be at a Halloween party while they were both being treated at the Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders at Children’s Medical Center in Dallas.

For Jayla, who has been diagnosed with an aggressive form of leukemia and who, according to her doctors, may only have weeks to live, the “wedding” was less a dream come true than a last wish.

“He is very cute, and I love him,” Jayla said of Jose, who has a chronic and more treatable form of leukemia with a strong prognosis of recovery.

“I was so excited and happy,” she told ABCNews.com. “It was really fun, and we had dances and did a lot of things.”


Quotes

""She's only nine. All I can do is give her what she wants. I give and give, because I don't know what else to do."" — Lisa Cooper, Jayla's mother

"He is very cute and I love him." — Jayla Cooper

"He knows what's going on. He understands that she is going to a better place." — Charla Griggs, Jose's mother

"He's brighter, happier and more content with all that they go through in the hospital. She changed that, brought it all out [and] opened up a side of him I hadn't seen." — Lawrence Griggs, Jose's father


Leukemia

Leukemia is a blood cancer which produces abnormal white blood cells in the bone marrow. Eventually the cancer starts blocking the growth of normal white blood cells important to fight off diseases. Leukemia also overcomes red blood cells and platelets, thereby interfering with the flow of oxygen through the blood. There are several types of leukemia.

Aisyah : ~*^_^*~

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Kawan...tu lah Kawan....  

Posted by Aisyah

Copy dari Zetty....
Zetty mengooVoo ku tepat kul 1.05 am,
katanya die suka ayat2 ni...hehehe...
saya pun suke...
terjadi pada kami hari tu..hehehe, ye ke cik ti???

HIDUP ini susah kita nak DUGA.. kadang-kala kita rasa DEKAT dengan SESEORANG tu.. tapi sebenarnya JAUH.. walaupun kita dapat GENGGAM TANGAN dia, belum tentu HATI dia kita dapat SELAMI.. mungkin kita boleh buat dia KETAWA tapi kita tidak tahu apa maknanya SENYUMANNYA.. bila dia menangis, kita sangka kita dapat MEMUJUKNYA.. walhal, KEHADIRAN kita LANGSUNG TAK DISENANGI. Rencah dunia. Kita takkan tahu siapa KAWAN dan LAWAN sehingga kita JATUH TERSUNGKUR.. adakah saat itu tangan DIHULURKAN atau kita DITINGGALKAN

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Khunsa vs Pondan : Perbetulkan pandangan anda dengan ADIL  

Posted by Aisyah

Assalammualaikum.....

terlalu lama rasanya x update blog...
xde mood nak post ape2, tapi mood baca blog org lain mmg selalu ade...ngeh3...

Khunsa vs Pondan : sama kah???
terpanggil utk post berkenaan hal ni sebab terbaca satu artikel kat metro online berkenaan kecelaruan jantina, dan yg penting sekali, isu ni mmg berkait rapat dengan hidup aku.

Kenapa berkait rapat? sebab my bro de kawan yg dilahirkan khunsa, dan nak dijadikan cerita, telah pun menjadi kawanku jugak..... .satu hari tu, my bro cite yg kawan kami ni sebenarnya Khunsa...aku tanya balik, khunsa tu pe? (masa tu x tau lagi pasal khunsa ni)......

my bro cite, khunsa tu, mereka yg dilahirkan mempunyai 2 kemaluan....(terkejut time tu, coz bru tahu, ada manusia yg dilahirkan ada 2 kemaluan).

Dari segi luaran, kawan kami ni mmg rupanya lebih kepada lelaki (handsome weeiii).......tapi character die lembut sikit.....aku mmg suka sikap die, lembut je kalau cakap, tersusun, rajin plak tu, kalau datang rumah, mesti tlg aku masak, basuh pinggan...suke2....

Naluri die plak, lebih kepada lelaki, die suke pompuan la......
yg buat aku rasa sayu, die selalu cakap, camne hidup die nanti?, sambil senyum......(aku rasa die x tau yg aku tau die ni khunsa)

Bila aku terbaca artikel ttg kecelaruan jantina ni, baru aku tau...zaman nabi dulu pun ade mmg dah ade golongan khunsa ni... dan khunsa tu bukan terjadi kat manusia je, haiwan pun ade jugak yg khunsa...Ni artikelnye, baca jgn x baca..

Celaru jantina

Oleh Mohd Fadly Samsudin
fadly@hmetro.com.my

SETIAP suami isteri pasti mengimpikan zuriat yang lahir seorang bayi sempurna, comel, bijak dan sihat. Maha Suci Allah yang menjadikan manusia itu sebaik-baik kejadian.

Namun, manusia hanya mampu merancang dan Allahsentiasa menguji hamba-Nya dengan sesuatu kekurangan bagi menilai tahap kesabaran dan kekuatan iman mereka.

Satu daripadanya adalah Allah s.w.t ciptakan bayi yang baru lahir memiliki dua ciri jantina atau lebih dikenali sebagai khunsa.

Malah, khunsa bukan terhad kepada manusia, malah ia turut berlaku kepada hidupan lain seperti siput, kerang dan ikan kerapu yang memiliki dua jantina bagi proses pembiakan.

Kita perlu yakin setiap ciptaan Allah mempunyai hikmah tersembunyi dan ia fitrah yang membuktikan kekuasaan, kebesaran serta keagungan-Nya.

Jarang masyarakat mahu membincangkan secara terbuka isu khunsa kerana ia membabitkan maruah, aib dan tabu apatah lagi jika ibu bapa memiliki anak sedemikian.

Namun, insan yang dilahirkan sebagai khunsa juga makhluk Allah dan mereka berhak untuk menikmati nikmat serta rezeki Yang Maha Esa.

Khunsa dalam bahasa Arab bererti lembut. Istilah yang sering digunakan dalam bahasa Melayu merujuk kepada golongan kaum yang lembut atau pondan.

Pondan pula merujuk kepada lelaki yang memiliki sifat wanita terutama dalam penampilan dan ada yang sanggup merubah kejadian asal dengan membuat pembedahan bagi memiliki organ wanita (payudara dan alat sulit).

Ada riwayat peristiwa khunsa ketika zaman pemerintahan Khalifah Saidina Ali yang menggemparkan masyarakat ketika itu apabila seorang lelaki berkahwin dengan seorang wanita khunsa iaitu memiliki dua alat kelamin.

Selepas berkahwin, si suami menghadiahkan isterinya seorang jariah (pembantu).

Hasil perkahwinan itu, wanita khunsa berkenaan melahirkan zuriat.

Namun, wanita khunsa itu timbul pula berahi kepada jariahnya lalu menyetubuhinya sehingga jariah itu melahirkan anak.

Masyarakat amat terkejut dengan kejadian itu dan menyampaikan berita kepada Saidina Ali. Baginda menghantar pakar bagi mengesahkan jantina wanita khunsa itu.

Pengesahan itu membuktikan kedua-dua alat kelamin wanita khunsa berkenaan berfungsi.

Dia mengalami haid seperti perempuan dan keluar mani dari zakarnya.

Ini bermakna wanita khunsa itu boleh dijimak suaminya dan dia dapat menjimak jariahnya.

Namun, Saidina Ali tidak berputus asa bagi mengenal pasti jantina wanita khunsa itu kerana mahu menyelesaikan masalah yang menimpa pasangan terbabit dan menjadi pengajaran kepada umat Islam.

Lalu, baginda menghantar pakar menghitung tulang rusuk wanita itu. Ini amat tepat sesuai kepada ketentuan Allah yang menjadikan Hawa dengan mengambil satu tulang rusuk sebelah kiri nabi Adam.

Hasilnya, Saidina Ali membuat keputusan wanita khunsa itu adalah lelaki lalu memisahkan perkahwinan dengan suaminya kerana dianggap tidak sah.

Penolong Pengarah Institut Latihan Islam Malaysia (Ilim), Zamihan Mat Zain, berkata pengajaran daripada riwayat itu ibu bapa patut berbincang dengan pakar perubatan jika mendapati anak mereka dilahirkan khunsa.

"Dalam Islam, khunsa merujuk kepada seseorang yang dilahirkan secara semula jadi yang diragui jantinanya sama ada mempunyai dua alat kelamin, tiada langsung atau ada alat kelamin lelaki, tetapi batinnya perempuan atau sebaliknya.

"Jalan terbaik ibu bapa perlu reda dan meminta doktor perubatan mengesahkan jantina bayi mereka sebelum melakukan pembedahan membuang satu alat kelamin itu," katanya.

Beliau berkata, keputusan itu perlu dibuat supaya tidak timbul masalah di kemudian hari terutama yang membabitkan masalah perkahwinan, pendaftaran kelahiran dan proses membezakan lelaki dan wanita.

"Jika khunsa itu menjalani pemeriksaan perubatan dan mengetahui organ seks yang mana yang berfungsi, maka dia tidak boleh pula menyalahkan naluri dan perasan untuk menjadi individu yang bertentangan dengan jantinanya. "Itu sebab berlaku masalah besar, si lelaki yang ingin menukar jantina kepada wanita," katanya.

Katanya, khunsa terbahagi kepada dua jenis iaitu khunsa musykil (khunsa yang diragui) dan juga khunsa ghair musykil (khunsa yang tidak diragui).

"Khunsa musykil adalah individu yang tidak diketahui langsung jantinanya disebabkan tiada sebarang tanda-tanda yang boleh diklasifikasikan lelaki atau perempuan.

"Manakala khunsa ghair musykil pula ialah individu yang dapat dipastikan jantina melalui tanda-tanda seperti datang haid dan dari saluran mana air kencingnya keluar.

"Bagi khunsa yang datang haid, dia adalah seorang wanita dan jika air kencingnya keluar melalui zakar bermakna dia lelaki atau jika melalui faraj, dia wanita," katanya.

Mengikut hukum syarak, khunsa ghair musykil harus berkahwin, tetapi khunsa musykil diharamkan berkahwin.

Jika khunsa ghair musykil seorang lelaki, maka pasangannya mestilah seorang perempuan. Manakala jika khunsa itu seorang perempuan, pasangannya adalah seorang lelaki.

Malah, harus bagi individu (khunsa ghair musykil) memotong atau membuang salah satu alat kemaluannya yang tidak berfungsi bagi tujuan persetubuhan atau membuang air kecil.

"Jika khunsa itu menjalani pemeriksaan perubatan dan mengetahui organ seks yang mana berfungsi, dia tidak boleh menyalahkan naluri dan perasan untuk menjadi individu yang bertentangan dengan jantinanya," katanya.

Beliau berkata, golongan ini biasanya menyalahkan takdir dan mengatakan mereka memang dilahirkan sedemikian serta tidak mampu berubah lagi.

"Tanggapan sedemikian salah kerana Allah mencipta manusia dengan sebaik-baik kejadian. Usaha mereka bagi merubah kejadian asalnya adalah haram kerana bertentangan dengan ajaran agama.

"Golongan ini digelar mukhannas, mak nyah atau pondan.

"Khunsa dan pondan adalah dua istilah berbeza kerana khunsa dilahirkan mempunyai dua alat kelamin manakala pondan atau mak nyah sengaja melakukan perubahan bentuk fizikal dari lelaki kepada wanita," katanya.

Katanya, golongan pondan atau mak nyah perlu bertaubat dan tidak melayani naluri songsang mereka.

"Mereka tidak perlu mengeluarkan wang yang banyak untuk melakukan pembedahan payudara atau faraj kerana hakikatnya mereka adalah lelaki.

"Masyarakat perlu memperbetulkan pandangan terhadap mereka yang dilahirkan khunsa dan golongan pondan secara adil," katanya....

Aisyah : ~*^_^*~

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Power Of Love  

Posted by Aisyah

Saya pun nak suami cam ni....
















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Mekacih bebanyak ct...  

Posted by Aisyah

Award dari ct......my sweet-sweet classmate
thanks..muaxxx

hanya Fakta bukan Auta tentang pemberi award:

>> muka beliau sangat sweet dari mataku....ala redup2 kerinduan gitu

>> tokey tudung..dan beliau menjalinkan kerjasama dengan cukup baik sekali dengan mint dalam hal2 tudung ni.

>> MT petakom..begitu gah sekali melihat gambar beliau diposter petakom

>> kami pernah merempit bersama..............gi pasar malam je pong, haha

>> kalau korang jumpa beliau, cuba korang tengok cara die gelak...sangat sweet..hehehe..(ni bukan nak bodek ek jauh sekali merasuah,huhu)


Ku lanjutkan pemberian award ni kepada mereka yg terpilih, Jeng..jeng.. :

1. Zetty (cian die kena kuarantin seminggu)
2. Qilah
3. Wawa (roomateku yg bucuk)
4. Mazia
5. Adib

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the truth of MJ's death  

Posted by Aisyah

wah..berani mati post aku kali ni...

thanks to olliey polliey diatas info ni, yg saya copy utk post kali ni, okes..


TRUTH OF MJ DEATH


Michael Jackson (MJ) was known as the most loving person in the world. He gave up most of his assets for charity and all his life, he fought for equality of the African Americans, AIDS victims, Against Drug Abuse, Against Abortion, Against Child Labor and secretly channelled his properties for the hungry children of the world. However, he wasn't peace at heart. He always think of himself as a child trapped inside a man's body. Being Peter Pan is all his dream, never to grow up, forever a child. That inspires him to build Neverland - a heaven for children. Children of all ages and races are welcomed to Neverland. MJ had so much love to give.

However, he made a mistake which he didn't know of the consequences. He saw the peaceful life his brother, Jermaine (Muhammad Abdul Aziz) had as a Muslim - true, Jermaine faced so much pressure that he moved to Bahrain.


In 1989, MJ made a press conference which shocked the world, "I have seen the Islam in the life of my brother, I have read the books about Islam. And I'd love to someday feel the calmness and peace of Islam...."

Since that, MJ's life was never the same again.
He was accused of so many accusations against child molestation. MJ was not someone who can deal with much pressure as he is a 'delicate child'. All the extortion and black mail followed after that. Everything he did was being seen as wrong in the eyes of the Media. All these are to influence his fans to hate MJ. If he is hated, then he would not be influencial anymore.

For several years, he stayed in England. Getting motivation from a long time friend, Cat Stevens, who had converted into Islam - named Yusuf Islam. From him, MJ learnt how Yusuf had survived being Muslim. He made friends with a song writer, Zain Bhikha too, who wrote a song titled, "GIVE THANKS TO ALLAH", which he wanted MJ to sing whenever he is ready.

Following his trial, MJ withdrew to Bahrain, where he was the special guest of sheik Abdullah bin Hamad Al Khalifa, the son of Bahrain’s king. It was then that Michael began to give conversion more “serious thought.”
MJ stayed in Bahrain for approximately 3 years. He studied Islam, the prayers and learn to read the Koran (al-Quran).



Finally, he came back to Los Angeles and in November 2008 MJ had formally converted to Islam in a ceremony at a close friend’s house in Los Angeles.
He perform Haj with the King of Bahrain and son on December 2008.



He had a hidden agenda when he wanted to make a final comeback. He annouced in a press conference on March 2009, "This will be my final concert. I'll see you all in July...."

He planned that during his concert, he would announce that this is the FINAL concert as he wouldn't be performing anymore. He will declare that he is a Muslim and will only sing with Yusuf Islam and Friends.
At the end of the concert, he will be singing the song, "GIVE THANKS TO ALLAH" with Yusuf Islam. That is the reason why he chose London as his final concert venue instead of the USA. It was because he thought he could escape the USA's extortion, and that he could perform with yusuf Islam who is in England.

At 12.30am, 25th June 2009, he hugged his production manager and said, "After reherasing for 2 months, I am finally ready for the concert..."
Before leaving to sleep, he waved his dancers, "It was a good night everyone. I'll see you all tomorrow..."
The next thing... He was pronouced dead at 2.26am....

When 911 was called, there are so much questions asked. It is as if they didn't know who MJ is and where he lived. The questions asked are more towards to delay time.
The hospital said the autopsy result can only be obtained after 2 months - very illogical as even the worst African technology could obtain the result in less than 2 weeks.

MJ's family members opt for second private autopsy as they started to feel something fishy is going on. The result came out in about 4 days - MJ was drugged with high dosage of anaesthetic - drug that brings about a reversible loss of consciousness, if used to much could stop the heart from beating.

Another result which was not aired in the media was, MJ's stomach is empty of this drug, but his blood were filled with it - same case as the death of Marilyn Monroe.
The private doctors also found many needle marks, afraid to be forced injections given to MJ on his bed.

In CNN Live after a week, Barack Obama was interviewed. And he said, "I love MJ, I grew up listening to his songs. It is a great loss, but rest assured that there is no conspiracy in his death..."
Now, why must a President made such statement before the official autopsy result came out? How would he know that there is no conspiracy without the post-mortem result? Seems like someone is afraid of his shadows.

MJ was known to the world as a person who is against drug abuse. Why must he be addicted to drug, then? If he wanted to commit suicide, why rehearse for his concert? And why will he want to see his dancers the next day?

Enough about his death. I am sure people around the world is not stupid anymore. These supreme power can fool us during the Marilyn Monroe conspiracy, Martin Luther King and Princess Diana. But in this MJ's case, they left too many loopholes for those who think...!!



MJ left us with this unfinished studio-recorded song, GIVE THANKS TO ALLAH. You can download this song here:
http://www.filefactory.com/file/ahb80ff/n/Micheal_Jackson_-_Give_Thanks_To_Allah_mp3

MJ's family was about to give him a Muslim burial with the help of The Brotherhood of Islam. But, the CIA showed up at Neverland's door - blackmailed them that if they do so publicly, Katherine (MJ's mother) would be pull off from MJ's 3 children's custody as well as MJ's estates. Instead, they'll hire Debbie Rowe for the purpose, and the court will be in their favour. So much for democracy and fairness...

Finally, they agreed to let MJ have a Muslim Burial in Neverland. But in condition, must show to the public a Christian Memorial Service, as to prove to the world that MJ was never a Muslim.

So, Staples Centre was just a normal show. That's why the coffin was closed and sealed.

MJ was buried days earlier. The Gold Coffin was empty. They were about to bury the Coffin according to Christianity ways in Hollywood - as in their deal with the USA Government.

These happened, because the USA is afraid of the rising numbers of Muslims in the world.

(Sheikh Ha**d)
The Brotherhood of Islam
Buletin of Bahrain

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Zetty mencuri masa mengeTag saya...  

Posted by Aisyah

1) Beside your lips,where is the favourite spot to get kissed?
-> forehead..syahdu

2) How did you feel when you woke up this morning?
-> sakit pinggang

3) Who was the last person / people you took photo with?
-> umaya..my classmate

4) Would you consider yourself spoiled?
-> emm..sometimes.

5) Have you ever had a best friend who was of the opposite sex?
-> x dok

6) Do you want someone to be dead?
-> entah..x pernah pikir

7) What does your last text message say?
-> Salam..bleh xamik isnin ni.Sy ad kt umahlah awk.Isnin ni bka dr kol bpe?-mesej dari student yg nak amik t-shirt MINDS

8) What are you thinking right now?
-> memikirkan warna pe baju kawen aku nanti..weee~~

9) Do you want someone to be with you right now?
-> mak...rindunye

10) What was the time you went to bed last night?
-> x ingat

11) Where did you buy the tee you are wearing now?
-> depan carrefour, Klang..harga die RM33

12) Is someone on your mind right now?
-> my sis

13) Who was the last person who text you?
-> x kenal..student yg nk amik tshirt MINDS

Ten LUCKY person to do this quiz.-
  • mint
  • ct
  • ain
  • qilah
  • oli
  • izzah
  • aimie
  • wawa
  • mazia
  • ana
14) Who is no.2 having a relationship with?
-> x kenal..tpi die memang sudah berpunya...hehe

15) Is no.3 a male or a female?
-> female...pemalu orgnye..

16) If no.7 and no.1 get together , would it be a good?
-> pompuan ngan pompuan...jadi besan bolehlah

17) What is no.1 studying about?
-> sama ngan saya..software engineering

18) When was the last time you chatted with them?
-> pagi tadi..

19) Is no.4 single?
-> x la

20) Say something about no. 2
-> ayu je muka die...sejuk mak mentua tgk..

21) What do you think about no.3 & no.6 being together?
-> x boleh x boleh

22) Describe no.9
-> susah nak cakap pasal budak sorang ni..haha

23) What will you do if no.6 and no.7 fight ?
-> entah

24) Do you like no. 8?
-> mestilah..my roomate yg malas nk mandi...hehehe

25) How about no. 10?
-> kawan baik mazia...pergi mane2 berdua..ha...

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